The instructions don't say anything about both sides having to set up everything the same, do they?
No they don't, I never said they did. I asked a question, your answer could have been - "No".
I've got email games going using different maps and OoBs and they work without problems. It would be way too much trouble to change this for every game you have.
Sure, that's very understandable, I was not suggesting it should be like this, only looking for a reason why people are having problems.
I suggest you try a different map than Eylau and see if PBEM works better there.
I have tried many different maps and OOB, with the same result, everything runs ok untill I get the ONE frame video which you said is because the other person has not folowed the instructions correctly, but they say they have.
I'm really getting confused at why you and others are NOT having problems with PBEM yet others are and there is no explanation as to why this is -
Is it a simple case of people not following the instructions correctly ? - there has to be a reason, otherwise it would all be working for
everyone, and not some.